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Rediscovering Your Life Purpose And Waking Up To Placentas In Your Bed
My counselor told me yesterday I needed to rediscover my life purpose. It had to be something that didn’t involve the opposite gender, i.e sex, dates, or anything of the like. Not that I have a problem seeing life beyond the act of sex, the opposite gender, etc. Nice try stalking ex if you are reading [...]
Spending Valentines With A Ghost
I told my mom tonight that I greatly admire her for her strength after dad died a several months ago. One would never know that she is a grieving widow from the looks of her. She has successfully developed a new identity and interests, friends, and likes. She no longer talks about dad or refers herself [...]
Funny Observations This Week From A Single Parent
Sometimes I have to stand back and laugh at the absurdity and oddity of my life. Here’s a quick snapshot of the last 168 hours (that’s 7 days for those who can’t do math;) )….. USELESS FACTOID #1:If your washer is going to break down, make sure that it’s not full of water and your [...]
Farewell My Beloved Soldier, I love You
As one may know from reading my additional blog posts and pages here, I have been through enormous pain, trials, and tribulations in my life. However painful it was to lose a child or a father, nothing compared to the enormity and excruciating pain, the raw emotion of putting my fiance’ onto a plane heading [...]
The Army Of The Lord
A song has frequented the darkest lairs of my mind lately….seems daddy is never really dead because I can always hear his voice, his laugh, his singing, or something…and no, I’m not Bipolar with delusions like my son or schizophrenic…… The song is The Army of the Lord by Harvest, which dad sang A LOT [...]
If Magnetic Spiders Could Sing…
They may look like this….. If you may recall, my 9 yr old recently had a birthday where I got him a black cake and decorated it and his present with glittery spiders. I later made the Halloween spiders into magnets, since I didn’t have very many for the fridge. The ugly fridge, an obvious rental [...]
What Would You Choose As Your Last Meal?
As a former law enforcement officer, all things related to crime and punishment fascinates me. Nothing grips my interest more than the death penalty. It is by far the oldest form of sentencing in the history of man. It is still argued by some as cruel, unusual, and barbaric. No other sentencing comes close in [...]
25 Things Divorce Has Taught Me
Here’s an article I wrote recently. It is called “25 Things Divorce Has Taught Me.” Since half of all marriage end in divorce, I figured that this was something many people could relate to and benefit from. Here’s an excerpt. You can read the whole article by clicking here. Learn to love yourself first. You [...]
9 Non-Committed Dating Relationships You May Be Trapped in
As a newly divorced person, I face the prospect of once again dating in the future. I realize my safest bet is to remain single and be some creepy cat guy who smells like bowling shoes. But, I’m way too extroverted for that! Here’s some scary relationships (simplified in texting terminology) that one, divorced or [...]
